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Preterm Premature Rupture of Membranes

March 25, 2022 Leave a Comment

DISCLAIMER: I am not a medical professional and I have written this post based on my experience of preterm premature rupture of membranes. The information I have included, is from what I was told by professionals at the time and what I read on NHS sites. If you have any concerns about your pregnancy orRead More

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Hospital Bag Checklist: What I ACTUALLY Needed

February 4, 2022 Leave a Comment

As someone who loves organisation and lists, packing my hospital bag was a particularly satisfying experience. I read many different examples of lists, one of my favourites included a mini bottle of champagne (shout out to that mama!). Then from this, I wrote my own based on what I thought I needed and then some..Read More

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My Birth Story

January 18, 2022 Comment : 1

During my pregnancy I found it extremely motivating to read other individuals birth stories. I was fortunate enough to be part of The Positive Birth Company’s Facebook group as part of their Hypnobirthing package, where others would post their positive birth stories. It was refreshing to read stories that were real life and not dramatized versions of birth you see on TV. So, I wanted to put my birth story out there, in hope that it might help anyone that finds themselves in a similar situation.

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What we used E V E R Y D A Y on our holiday 🏝 What we used E V E R Y D A Y on our holiday 🏝

β€’ Pacifier clip. We use the Mam pacifiers, but you can get different brands with different clips to fit. I’d stick to using the same brand for the clip as the pacifier you use, just to ensure it fits properly. These are lifesavers as Indie took to throwing her dummy out of the pram (quite literally πŸ˜…)

β€’ Pool float. We got this before travelling as we wanted to make sure we had the correct size. This little crab float was from Amazon (I’ll link it in my highlights) 

β€’ Swimsuits with a built in nappy. Inbetween swimming, we used a normal nappy, but when Indie was in the pool we relied on the swimsuit nappy. I wasn’t sure how it was going to work, but it went well! No accidents to report and easily cleaned πŸ˜…

β€’ You may have seen my @joie_global pushchair on a previous reel, but it really did make life easier whilst travelling. I’d recommend a lightweight, easy to fold down pram. One that fits in the overhead of a plane is even better. 

β€’ Clip on pram toys are a must. They kept Indigo entertained for hours whilst we ate out, or relaxed. She loves them! 

I’ll link the products to my highlight. What are your travel must haves? Leave a comment below and save this to come back to.
DIY IKEA highchair hack πŸ™ŒπŸ» I’d seen a few DIY IKEA highchair hack πŸ™ŒπŸ»

I’d seen a few people on here doing this and thought I’d give it a go. I am not in the slightest bit good at creative/putty together things, so I didn’t have much hope πŸ˜… But @mycovebaby have you covered with a really simple way to give your IKEA highchair a much needed glow up! 

Products we used:
β€’ @ikea Antilop Highchair: Β£15 
β€’ @mycovebaby splashmat (colour apricot): Β£12
β€’ @mycovebaby cushion insert: Β£6
β€’ @mycovebaby vinyl leg wrap (colour beech): Β£14
β€’ @mycovebaby footrest (colour beech): Β£20
β€’ @mycovebaby cushion cover (jungle safari): Β£20 

The total time putting it all together, including the chair assembly, took around 15 minutes (if that!) and I like the idea that we can change designs easily if we wanted to. I’m also impressed at how the vinyl legs wrap look like actual wood, as I wasn’t sure how they’d turn out. 

Have you done a highchair glow up? Save this as some inspo ✨
Indie’s last week at @bloomnorthumberlandandtyne Indie’s last week at @bloomnorthumberlandandtyneside πŸ₯² These classes were a bit of a lifeline in the earlier days. Those 45 minutes of entertainment and venting to other Mam’s really did the trick, so I’m pretty sad it’s come to an end. 

If you’ve followed me a while, you might have seen those first few weeks were not smooth sailing. Indie was hugely overwhelmed, tearful and appeared hesitant to join in. It took a while, but eventually we started to get through the class without tears πŸ˜… I was torn between feeling like a bad Mam for putting her through it and trying to teach her to adapt to new environments.

I would feel worried that she was β€˜behind’ all the other babies, even though logically I know all babies go at their own pace. It’s hard not to worry about those things, isn’t it? As a parent, it’s hard not to feel completely responsible. Was I not doing enough? Was I a bad Mam? 

Well, I’m so pleased we preserved. Even up to the last class Indie was building her skills and confidence. It’s as if she knew yesterday was her last, as she showed me there was never any need to worry as she joined in with all of the activities. Her confidence bloomed (pardon the pun πŸ˜‚). A special thank you to Anthea for all her patience and kindness shown in the classes, she always made us feel very calm and welcome. 

NGL I felt teary when I left. I was relieved that we pushed through the challenges and in the end she enjoyed it. However, ten seconds later the guilt set in that I ever doubted her. And that my friends is motherhood πŸ˜… 

It can feel like anytime we feel a positive emotion, it can be quickly offset with a worry or guilt. I quickly reminded myself that these are just thoughts, it doesn’t make them real. If it was someone else in this situation, I’d be compassionate and empathetic to their situation. So I tried that with myself instead. 

Learning from this experience: Motherhood can feel a bit like β€˜you’re damned if you do, you’re damned if you don’t’. The guilt we feel is probably based on unrealistic expectations. Try to understand where they come from and alter these to be manageable. Do your best, it’s all we can do. 

Save as a reminder ❀️
We’ve been enjoying the sunshine this weekend at We’ve been enjoying the sunshine this weekend at @helloworldclasses fest πŸŽͺ🎸

As Indie gets older and is showing more interest in things, it has become very apparent that she loves music. I mean most babies probably do, but I like to think she’s heading for that Pyramid stage at Glastonbury πŸ˜… That being said we’ve registered for next year and wondering are we completely mad for attempting a huge festival with a one year old? Stay tuned to find out πŸ˜‚

Have you done a festival with a baby before? Leave us some inspiration below ⬇️
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